It seems that all married couples get to that point when marriage feels a bit ho-hum. When we are newlyweds, we are excited to be sharing our lives with someone. We go lots of places together, spend time with each other and, of course, there’s the nonstop sex!
Then, after a year or so of marriage, things begin to dry up. Of course, you still love each other. Maybe more so than ever! But as you become more comfortable with each other, you may not make that extra effort to make things special. And the bedroom is one of the places you will feel this lack of enthusiasm the most!
Well, there are things you can do to spice up your loved life and lingerie can play a big part of this. Here is how you can use lingerie to get that spark back into your marriage.
Go Lingerie Shopping Together
Sure, surprising your partner with lingerie can be a great way to make your night exciting, but if you go lingerie shopping together it can be even more arousing. You can let your significant other pick pieces he or she is sure to love. Then the two of you can look forward to the time you will be able to put it on, and take it off, building up to that special moment.
Picking the Right Lingerie
If you decide you would rather go lingerie shopping alone, or if your partner is not available to go with you, you may find yourself facing some difficult choices trying to find the perfect outfit. Well, it doesn’t have to be too complicated. Just think of his taste and your taste and find something you both will like.
If you want something cute and demure, babydoll lingerie will be the perfect thing. If you want to add an element of glamour, you might go for a lace bodysuit or lace teddy. If you are going for something simple…and easy to get in and out of, you might just opt for a bra and panties set. If you want to try something kinky, BDSM lingerie, bondage lingerie or fetish lingerie could be just what the doctor ordered.
Try Something New
Now that you know what you’re going to wear, you have to think about what you’re going to do. Trying something new in the bedroom can really work to reignite the old engine. Think of bringing in toys to make things more interesting.
There are also simpler ways you can turn it up a notch. New positions, different lighting or just talking dirty can help you to explore new options that can get both of you back in the bedroom more often.
Marriage is hard, but a great sex life can be the key to making it work. Start with some sexy lingerie and then explore your options to find out what will bring the both of you closer together. I’m sure you will be enjoying that newlywed spark again in no time!